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A
Attend school-related
and extracurricular events, such as science and math
fairs, field trips, open house events, parent/teacher
conferences, and the like. Even a very simple gesture,
such as visiting your child's school to share lunch,
communicates your interest. Children react positively
when you show support for their education and special
interests.
B
Build confidence by
encouraging children to do their best. It is also
important to let a child know that all you expect is his
or her best effort.
C
Communicate with the
child’s teacher. There is no better way to monitor your
child’s progress, whether the child is in elementary
school or high school. Teachers appreciate your
involvement, and talking with them regularly shows them
that you care about your child's education.
D
Discuss daily events, the school day,
community, and world events with your child. Daily
discussions with children allow them to ask questions
about things they may find confusing, while building
their confidence that you value their opinions. You can
discuss television shows, newspaper articles, books, or
what the child is studying in school.
E
Encourage your child to
eat nutritious meals and snacks. Remember that fuel is
needed for both the brain and the body.
F
Focus on
learning at home. Simple activities such as cooking
together, gardening, fixing a bicycle, or easy building
projects can reinforce math, science, and reading
skills. Activities like these also help children explore
activities that might later become hobbies for them.
G
Ask for Guidance from
teachers and school administrators when you have
questions or concerns about a child’s progress.
H
Review Homework
assignments each evening. You may want to
encourage children to keep an assignment book, or
planner, for tracking work. This will keep you in tune
with what the child is learning, and the child will
benefit from the extra review time.
I
Be Involved in
your child’s education. Studies show that when adults
take part in a child’s education, the child does better
in school. Single parents and working parents have the
added challenge of balancing family, work, and school
involvement. But there are many ways to stay involved
that don't require spending a lot of time away from
work. Establish a line of communication with your
child’s teacher by telephone. Some teachers even use
e-mail regularly. Find out what events the school has
scheduled during the year that are in the evening.
J
Judge a child’s
progress based on his or her ability.
K
Know what is
expected of a child at each grade level and in each
subject area, then ask the child’s teacher for
suggestions to help you help him or her. A good place to
start is by reading about Florida's Sunshine State
Standards.
L
Listen
to your child. Your attentiveness will
demonstrate valuable listening skills—and it will keep
the lines of communication open. A good way to start a
conversation with your child is to ask a specific
question about what was studied that day. Questions such
as "What did you study about in science (math, social
studies, history) class today?" will probably give you
more information than asking a more general question
such as, "How was school today?"
M
Monitor your child's
activities and direct him or her toward activities that
are constructive and meaningful. Many experts recommend
supervising and setting limits on the content of
television programs and limiting television time, even
for teenagers.
N
Note your child’s strengths
and build upon them. Talk with your child's teacher
about his or her areas of strength and weakness. Having
confidence in one skill helps children master other
skills.
O
Offer lots of praise and
encouragement. Your positive attitude will increase the
child’s self esteem and build confidence in his or her
abilities.
P
Practice makes perfect. Ask
the child’s teacher to identify areas in which he or she
may need help, then spend time reading and working
through practice activities in these areas. For younger
children, flash cards can help keep math facts or
vocabulary words fresh. For older children, supervised
study groups with peers can help.
Q
Ask Questions about the
child’s school day. This will keep you up-to-date on
what he or she is doing in school and will show the
child that you are interested in what he or she is
learning.
R
Read
with your child. Even older children and young adults
benefit from family time set aside for reading. Reading
aloud to each other is a great way to open topics for
discussion and to open lines of communication.
S
Create an after-school Schedule,
building in time for the child to finish homework
assignments. This emphasizes the importance of homework
and makes sure that a child completes his or her work.
T
Talk to your child. Keeping an
open line of communication shows your child that you
care and provides him or her with a way to talk about
problems and concerns.
U
Use materials other than
your child’s schoolbooks to encourage reading and
learning. Educational television programs, films,
travel, Internet articles, and even music can be used as
tools for learning and discussion.
V
Visit libraries and museums
with your children. Attending cultural events such as
plays, musical performances, and fairs with children can
provide opportunities to learn about the world in which
they live. Children will benefit from becoming familiar
with how to use these kinds of resources.
W
Write letters and notes to
children and encourage them to write to you. Even
elementary school-aged children can be asked to write
grocery lists and holiday wish lists. Writing often and
for different purposes helps children feel more
confident about their writing and ability to communicate
effectively.
X
Teach by
example. When you show that
you value learning, children will learn to value it too.
Y
Practice
what You
preach. When children see adults reading, whether
it is the newspaper, magazines, how-to-manuals, or
books, they will view reading as an everyday activity
rather than a difficult task.
Z
Zzzz.
Make sure children, including high school students, get
plenty of rest each school night. Establish
age-appropriate bedtimes and enforce them. |